Living with Paruresis - Shy Bladder Syndrome

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For men and women who find it difficult or impossible to urinate in a public or social situation.
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What is shy bladder syndrome?

We think it is: "An inability to urinate in the presence, real or perceived, of others". Common names for the condition are Shy Bladder, Bashful Bladder, Pee Shy or Stage Fright. A medical description is Psychogenic Urinary Retention. It affects both men and women, of all ages and backgrounds. Sufferers are often called Avoidant Paruretics (or APs for short), because their paruresis causes them to avoid situations that make it difficult or impossible for them to be able to pee.

Find out more about paruresis in What is Paruresis?, see what others are saying on the forum, look at what you can start doing in Living with Paruresis, find out about people's experiences of managing and overcoming paruresis in Paruresis Stories, and register your interest for one of our virtual workshops in Workshops.

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For the implications of workplace urine testing click here.

The condition was first researched and defined by Williams and Degenhardt in their paper "Paruresis: a Survey of a Disorder of Micturition" published in the Journal of General Psychology, 1954, 51, 19-29.

It can also affect people's ability to defecate, though by its nature this is usually less of a problem - an information site about this may be found at: www.shybowel.com

 

 

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Latest News and Information

18 August 2020
General News
Following UKPT's recent trial virtual workshop, we're pleased to say that the feedback was very positive, and we're now ready to launch our new progra...
09 July 2020
General News
UKPT are going to trial a Virtual Workshop, and are looking for 4 volunteers. We have recently had success in virtual de-sensing, and our colleagues i...
22 April 2020
General News
Paruresis is defined as a form of social anxiety which leads to the inability to pee in the actual or perceived proximity to others. You might therefo...
18 August 2020
General News
Following UKPT's recent trial virtual workshop, we're pleased to say that the feedback was very positive, and we're now ready to launch our new progra...
09 July 2020
General News
UKPT are going to trial a Virtual Workshop, and are looking for 4 volunteers. We have recently had success in virtual de-sensing, and our colleagues i...
22 April 2020
General News
Paruresis is defined as a form of social anxiety which leads to the inability to pee in the actual or perceived proximity to others. You might therefo...

The relief of persons suffering from the social anxiety Avoidant Paruresis

Our Aims and Goals

Desensitisation Help

The provision of desensitisation workshops for men and women across the UK.

Forum

Anonymous, moderated forum that provides a safe place to share experiences and support.

Online Support

The provision of internet based information and guidance for men and women.

Toilet Privacy

The promotion of the concept of individual privacy in the design of public toilets.

Research

The promotion of research into all aspects of the condition, particularly its cause and treatment.

Raise Awareness

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