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Having successfully managed my toilet difficulties in the hours after the earthquake, I was really disappointed to have a problem on the flight home. It was a 10 hour flight. We travel a lot and I usually have those circumstances sorted so that I can manage, but on this occasion my plan was thwarted. I usually try to sit in the aisle so that I can come and go unobtrusively as I need, but on this flight I was seated in the middle. I would usually offer the person sitting on the aisle to swap seats as I like to walk up and down a lot, but on this occasion he was a very tall gentleman who relied heavily on a walking stick. He wouldn't have been able to get into a middle seat due to his height and his disability. It was difficult for him to get out to enable me to visit the toilet so I felt that I should only disturb him once. Which of course put pressure on me to be able to successfully use the facilities on that one occasion, and I just couldn't. I was really tired at that stage - our journey home had been quite tortuous and I had spent the previous night sleeping on a bench in Delhi airport, so I'm putting the difficulty down to exhaustion.